Mystery Method - Have a positive, open attitude. Don't be judgmental or jealous.

Have a positive, open attitude. Don't be judgmental or jealous.
• Don't act as if tilings are a big deal. They aren't.
• Don't complain or be emotionally punishing. If you call her on her @!$%# while talking on the phone, she will just avoid talking to you on the phone. Instead of being the whiny or emotionally abusive boyfriend whenever she pulls a fast one, be the guy who has plenty of options.
• If she flakes on you, don't confront her about it next time you see her. Are you the guy who sat around and got upset? Or are you the guy who called over another girl and then forgot all about it?